TAGGED AGAIN

Rules:
If I tag you, you have to do the following:
1. The tagged victim must come up with 10 different points of their perfect lover.
2. Need to mention gender of target.
3. Tag 8 victims to join this game and leave a comment saying they've been tagged.
4. If tagged again, there's no need to post a 2nd time.

If I can find a BLACK MAN to be all 10 of these things, I will submit untoo thee.....*lol*

1. Knowledge, pride , love and respect for self and his community. Natural love of for his people. Black Awareness.

I don't have time to preach and debate with my man over the current condition of my people. We should already be on the same page and have the same understanding with the same passion and ambition to make a change. (The reason why I'm not with my ex)

A man with respect, love and pride for himself, will automatically respect his woman as well as, his community.

He understands the struggle and wants to make a change. He takes all necessary measures to go about making a change and breaking the cycle.

2. Confidence

A confident man always catches my attention. Any man I have ever been attracted to exuded a strong sense of confidence that made him irresistable. Confidence is exuded in the way a man walks, his demeanor. His confidence is marked by the lack of gauking at females or hounding them. He has a smooth approach to let you know he notices you. He is so confident, he doesn't go out of his way to meet a female, however, he is subtle and debonair in his approach.

3. Honesty and Loyalty

Regardless of the consequences, honesty will gain trust, a trust that will never be broken as long as the honesty prevails. We are all human and no one is perfect. Being honest with yourself, will allow you to be honest with others. I can't deal with a person who can't be real to themselves. That means you can't be real with me.

I need to be your best friend. I need to know everything. I need to tell you everything. There should never be any secrets. If we can't work through it, then it wasn't meant to be. No need to lie about it.

I need to know, before you cheat that you want to cheat. I need that honesty. We need to be able to communicate the reasons for it. I can either help resolve it or I can approve you going outside the relationship. Or I have the choice not to deal with it. Either way, I would have the option to do choose how my time will be spent. I've come to understand at some point or another, all women will share their man with another woman, knowingly or unknowingly. I rather know!!!

You can only be real with another person if you are being real with yourself. Real recognize real.

4. Cleanliness and Culinary Skills.

I love a clean men. Hygiene cleanliness is a must, but a man that keeps a clean and neat house. I'm in love!!! That means I won't need to clean up behind you.

Ain't nothing sexier than a half (of fully) naked man, in front of the stove, "hooking it up". Mmmmm. That's a major turn on. Mmmm. Food is an aphrodisiac... and if its good....mmmmmm YOU GONE GET IT.....

5. Sense of humor.

I love to laugh. Believe it or not, a man that makes a woman laugh is that much more closer to some pussy....regardless of his aesthetics. The few guys that I had that were aesthetically-challenged, kept me laughing and they were very confident. I forgot how ugly they were, their confidence and sense of humor actually made them beautiful....*lol*

6. Intelligence

Even though I am not college educated, I still find it hard to find good conversation with sustenance. I don't just want a man with a degree, cause he can be just as stupid as a man without one. I need a man with original thoughts, a mind of his own. You can learn from everyone, degree or not. However, I want a man that can teach me.

A man with an expansive vocabulary.
A man that can express himself clearly and intelligently.
A man that knows his ass from a whole in the wall.

7. Street Sense.

A beautiful combination of book smarts and street smarts. He can conduct himself in the "hood". He is respected in the hood. He doesn't stand out like a sore thumb when in the hood. He's not afraid to live in the "hood" or visit the "hood". He is not afraid of his own people. He loves and understands the "hood" but not a product of the "hood". He can sense danger or an uncomfortable situation a mile away. I'm safe with him. And he know how to throw them thangs.(Box) He doesn't need to tote heat. He ain't no back down ass, punk ass nigga!!!

8. Open-mindedness

In everything. I get bored easily, my mate needs to keep my mind, spirit and body occupied by incorporating new and interesting things. Or being open enough to accept what new things I bring to the table.

9. Hustler's Ambition

A legal hustler. He knows how to make something from nothing, legally. He comes up with executable ideas, that are legal.

I will follow him because he is confident, intelligent, honest, open minded, street smart, and he loves himself and his people. Therefore, I know his hustle will not harm anyone.

He is not afraid to take chances or take risks.
*You can't expect nothing new to happen if you don't step outside of the box.

10. Handsome

I would be full of shit if I say it doesn't matter how he looks. I like all types of Blackmen.

I prefer, light skin, because, I like to see the passion marks (scratches and bite marks) of my victims. But I like dark skin as well.

I prefer a man taller than me, I like feeling like a helpless, little woman, looking up to her man. But I can settle for a short man. (PCC is a few inches taller than me and so is Derry and they had my heart)

I prefer a healthy, thick, meaty (not fat) man, firm belly included. I have this fetish to men with firm bellies. I don't want a six pack. I can't lay on that, my booty can't smack against that, I can't grab that, but I'll settle for a six pack.

I like caesar's, fades, I hate braids, but I will settle. I never had a man with dreads or a bald head.

White teeth, almost perfect teeth. I had a few with critter teeth, but they had a great sense of humor though....*lol*

Their penis should be no smaller than 6 3/4 inches long and no bigger than 9 inches. I hate skinny, thin penises.....it needs to have some type of girth.

I prefer if he loves cunnilingus, not just doing it cause I like it.

OK I'm done dreaming......

However if anyone meets these qualifications, please email me your picture with your bio to sweet1coochbrown@yahoo.com....*lol*

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